FAQ

All the women’s tickets are sold out. How can I still get a spot?
Women’s tickets go fast. If they’re sold out, you can choose the “1 Woman + 1 Man” ticket option. It’s discounted, and it guarantees your spot. Just invite a platonic guy friend to join you!

How many people will I talk to?
We require at least 7 confirmed ticket sales per gender to run the event (with a maximum of 15 per gender). If we don't hit the minimum, the event is cancelled and you'll receive either a credit or a full refund. The exact number of conversations you'll have depends on who actually shows up. We can't control last-minute no-shows, but we do everything we can to keep the room full.

Will I get a refund if an event is cancelled?
We rarely cancel events, but if we ever do- whether due to unforeseen circumstances or low ticket sales—you will receive a full refund.

Are tickets refundable?
Tickets are non-refundable. However, if you purchase Purchase Protection and notify us at least 48 hours before the event, we’ll move you to a future event free of charge. This helps us maintain balanced ratios for everyone.

Are ratios always even?
Most of the time, yes. We control how many tickets we sell, but we can’t always control who actually shows up. If, for example, 10 women and 11 men attend, each man will still rotate through and meet all 10 women. Everyone still gets the full experience.

How do I match with someone?
We use a digital matchmaking system. Before the event, you’ll create a quick profile with a few photos and a short bio. At the end of the night, you’ll digitally select who you’d like to see again. If you match with someone, you’ll receive an email notification. We’ll also notify you if you have no matches, so you’re never left wondering.

Why is there an age range?
We set age ranges to help create a more intentional, comfortable, and compatible dating experience. Keeping participants within a similar life stage increases the likelihood of meaningful matches.

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Disclaimer & Event Policies

*IYKYK provides a platform for singles to meet, but we cannot be held responsible for the actions or behavior of individual participants.

*We do not guarantee that you will find a match, relationship, or love through our events.

*While we aim to create a safe and respectful environment, we do not individually vet every attendee.

*Harassment of any kind, including sexual harassment, will not be tolerated. Anyone engaging in inappropriate behavior may be asked to leave immediately without a refund.

*IYKYK reserves the right to deny entry or remove any participant from the event at any time, for any reason, at our discretion.

*By attending, you consent to IYKYK capturing photos and videos during the event and using them for promotional, commercial, or advertising purposes.